reason I filed for a sep was b/c I feared that my h would mortgage our home to invest with his "heroes" up on the tundra. I would have probably filed for divorce when the assets became threatened, like you Melissa, are suggesting. But MY LAWYER said not to b/c she saw "hope" for us reconciling (I picked a good L).
Here, the Sep froze assets and accomplished what I really wanted, which was protection of marital assets.
So what is it you want to accomplish? If it is to move on for YOUR Sake, so be it.
I don't know if filing for a D would have made h feel better/worse or anything but the Sep filing "made" him date openly.
So be ready for your h to "feel freed" ...at first....
and feel freer yourself if it helps. I found that it did, and so did dating, to be honest. I ended up usually liking my h just fine after a date but I also met some good fun men.
I just don't believe you will be single long IF YOU do not wish to be. So don't let fear of being alone (which we all have!!) stop you from anything.
It's not that accurate.
Plus, I sense you are a babe and a half, so there's that...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
