Thanks you guys!! Much to ponder and respond to! On my way to IC, so will mull and discuss more later. Don't know what I would do without you all!!

Betsey, stop by the drive through Starbucks on your way home tonight (I don't want to post details so hope you can figure out which one) - I left you that coffee I said I'd buy you. (Really it should be a steak dinner but sadly Elway's has no drive through.)

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14