Laurie, thank you again. It is nice to receive that acknowledgement that others are starting to see the W's smokescreen now. Not that it is some race that we are competing in, but more for my own integrity. Yes, both the son and DIL would be feeling so much better knowing that I am going to the party with no intention of causing any fuss or issues. They will be able to look back at the 21st party last November and see that I am capable of doing that. It also helps to be in such a better point in life with the emotions around the sitch.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.