Hi 3, thanks for all your posts on my thread! I am running out now for IC (and will respond more later) but wanted to pop in and give my support on the L appointment. As I have been told, making an appointment to see an L, and find out what your future would look like in case of D doesn't mean you have to DO anything, but it will give you some valuable information.
And yes, meeting with an L and talking about getting D is kind of scary to do, but it will hopefully alleviate some of your fears around what could eventually happen.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14