I am surprisingly centered right now. I am calmly going to ask her how I can believe her this time. Changing number would not work, she knows his so that point is mute. She needs to be willing to openly share the phone records would be the only solution I can see. W claims she wants us to work more than anything. I have already told her that can't happen if she is still talking to him.

She mentioned that she is still getting calls from a block number that never responds when she answers and said she thinks it OM's W. She watches enough life time movies to know where crap like this can lead.

I really hope this goes smooth. I have the strength to tell her to leave if she does not stop this. I will not leave the house. If she wants to fine.

Wish me luck. I feel proud of myself for finally standing up to this situation.


separated since 9/01/13
M-31
W-36
D-4
Move back home 12/26/13
3 months of tough times
Finally in a happy M