I reached out to an L today and made an appointment for a consultation. The L sent me an intake form and I was surprised at how much information I do not know off the top of my head and will need to research. I know the basics on everything, but need to locate additional information. My information is straight forward, but my H's is complicated because he is self employed. Although I am scared out of my mind, I know that having this information will be helpful in my journey. It will take away the fear of the unknown and will keep me from being completed blindsided if H goes and files without notice. Just keep breathing...