I am so sorry GM - Sorry that you are dealing with a miserable man who only has his interest at heart.
I just read this thread, and realized that it is no different than my own story with the exception of the divorced part. I always knew our sitches were similar.
Take care GM, that's all I can say. i'll be thinking of you.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life