She left - My Story, First Post

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The W has had an EA with a coworker who was interested in her doctoral work. She felt listened too and made her feel important. I think it may have ended, but not positive about it. I can see now how that would change how she felt in the M.

What has conflicted me is if I should use LRT or not. LRT just doesn't seem to fit to well.

One of my 180s needs to be increased communication and support for the W. Could this also be seen as pursuing?

I am working through a lot of my issues. Some are gone completely because of work changes.

Called her last night and told her a book she needs has not shown up yet and also that I was going to personally tell my grandparents our sitch. Don't know how she felt but they needed to know.

Initially we both agreed that we did not want them to know because they are in their 80s and seem fragile. The more I thought about it I wanted to tell them myself instead of hearing rumor.

Any suggestions about reading the book she read on ending a M?