GRRRRRR!! I disagree.... I am a work in progress!!! Knowing where I was before and where I am today... I HAVE made GREAT progress!!!

It may seem like a lot of my posts are about him, because we work together (totally different than so many of the other posters on this board)... I am allowed to journal my thoughts here.

I am suggesting that I am noticing a shift in him... I say this because, he is no longer treating my like a subordinate and more like a partner that he is respecting. I like this! It may come across like I am controlling and manipulating, but NOT ANYMORE... I am accepting this now... why can't you believe me? He cannot see that I am doing "this", as "this" isn't displayed to him.... only a Happy easy going person that has lots to do, doesn't have time to linger at work, or on the phone... he said THIS!

I am not suggesting that you are ALL wrong. But, please give credit when credit is due.... if not, thats ok... I will give it to myself.

Thanks for all your advice, comments... I still appreciate and want them!!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)