Hi Wonka,

Thanks for your insight - it really is helpful for our sanity.

A few questions from me:

1) Did you think about Mrs. Wonka while you were in the fog? I have heard that MLCers cannot stop thinking about the LBS and children yet act as if they cease to exist. I am wondering if that really is the case. It is hard for me to fathom that my H ever thinks of anyone but himself and the OW.


2) If anyone close to you (family, friends) etc. HAD tried to talk some sense into you, do you think it would have mattered?

3) Did you begin to show signs of duress (physically) at some point during the MLS? My H looks terrible...as if the life is being sucked out of him.

Thanks again for your help!