Thanks Bug and AS. I do feel good about being proactive re:s...that being said we had a really crabby morning and I hate that he has to go through this at all.

Major tantrum screaming, hitting, throwing, spitting out meds and hysterically crying for Daddy. It is heart breaking. I don't know what he understands other than Daddy is around a lot less.

I wonder if H will ever be able to look back at this time and acknowledge the mess he helped create.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15