Oh and one more thing...I know you've heard this before, this is really about saving you and sometimes, marriages are saved.

There are lots of success stories on this board, very few of them include saved marriages.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss