I'll be brief. If this, what shall we call it...dalliance of your H's is a deal breaker, so be it. I have an idea I would have filed in that case but I wasn't in that position so don't really know.
I think your anxiety over the unknown is taking over. Please be aware of that and try not to make decisions based on that. Sometimes we want to control things and get on with it so we don't have to wait for that other shoe to drop. Slow down and be careful. I know you have a lot of fears, money being one but you have to do what's right for you, no regrets.
So don't let his actions or your L or your C push you into doing something you're not ready for. They have pieces of your best interests at heart, that don't have all of it. That's yours. From you posts it seems like you sometimes make decisions based on what you think others think you "should" do.
Slow down, dig deep, what does Melissa want? What's good for Melissa?
((( )))
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
