It is sad, crazy and depressing getting blamed for everything from flat tires to pimples but at least we are not living with this any more.
Good luck at court, I know I settled for less then I think I could have gotten to get it over with and hold on to some of my mental health. Its really hard - protecting your family financailly and protecting your brain from a crazy man.
You are not alone
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