Bea, I am so sorry that your xh has proceeded with the lawsuit. I know first hand how draining and expensive it is, but try to maintain the peace and joy you have found.
My biggest fear is that even after we settle our property my xh will continuously drag me back into court over some perceived right.
I have layed out the facts for my xh, but he insists on calling me a delusional liar. It doesn't matter to him that I have a solid paper trail with his name, signature and handwriting all over it. I'm still a liar. How can he confidently walk into court next week and believe he has done nothing wrong? He plans to show that it is me who has harmed him. This is all part of his disorder. Bea, like you, I am sad that my marriage is over, but am relieved that I finally understand who my xh really is and that I don't have to live with his abuse and craziness anymore.
