Understand, the rewriting marital history is pretty common, its to help her justify leaving. So for now, your going to believe half of what she does, and none of what she says. Right now, your always going to be positive, state of mind is a big thing. You know to not act mopey or depressed around her, its not attractive, and actually works against you in many ways.
Focus, on the task at hand, fixing your half of the issues. Try not to mind read what she might be thinking, its probably wrong anyways. Just keep focused on what you can, your changes, and being a great father, cause theres nothing more attractive than a great dad!
Your probably on moderation right now, which means we wont see your posts for 2-5 days. So make sure your reading some other threads, giving out some support, and post until the moderation ends. Things will get easier with advice if you post updates, offer help/support to others, include as much detail as possible for better advice. We're here to help you save your marriage, and yourself.
