Originally Posted By: GreyMatter
Also LITB,
great little list on what we need to do

Originally Posted By: LITB


The key is to utilize your time wisely. Make changes within yourself. Be the person that you want to date. Be the person you couldn't live without.

-Be fun
-Be confident
-Be different
-Be decisive
-Be interesting
-smile
-walk with your head up
-Be happy(say good morning/hello to people)

It is a mindset and it is attractive. Get there!!!


It is a mindset and I implemented this only 2 weeks after BD. If I couldn't change his mind then I needed to stop trying. I did this and faked it until I made it! It's still hard but I can genuinely smile and have fun!


I agree. I am doing that. I am also moving on with my life in the assumption she's never coming home. I can't keep hurting like I did.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14