Hang in there brother...focus on those kids. Being a great parent will get you through the BS.
As for life being fair, unless I missed a forum email or something, last I knew it wasn't. Life is what you make of each moment and if YOU make each moment great....Then life will be great in all the insanity.
GM-Side note....In my state you would probably own half the house he lives in with the OW....Just saying in case your lawyer hasn't thought of that. Unless you are already divorced of course, but I am not familiar with your situation.
