The other issue I wanted to address is the issue of D and thank you all for your comments about her.
I agree that this is not the place for her to be (within his sphere) at the moment.
If I trust in God I know that he has guided us out of his house so that we are in some way protected from the craziness that is ensuing.
The one thing that has troubled me with WAP has been the emergence of porn. He has done this privately (covertly) but i have caught him twice over the last 15 months. He has been very angry with me and told me that it is none of my business.- that it has nothing to do with me.I know that some people have mentioned this aspect in relation to the DEPRESSION that goes with MLC and also may be connected to the affair/OW.
Do any of you have any further insight into the role of porn/depression/affairs/MLC?
Thank you
I x