Oh thank you canyou? _ what a deep understanding from you, who has the exact same timeline as me, but you seem to have come to a quick understanding. I'm sorry somehow I missed your post before in scanning - it really helped.

M 20 yrs
me 47
H 51
s11
d8

BD 10/8/13
H Moved out 11/30/13
OW slept over with children Dec '13
OW moved in w/H Jan '14