I'm so sorry, Floyd. Boy, do I understand. I'm so tired of dealing with all the legal stuff. Do you now what it will take to settle? Is there something that she's holding out for? Are you in a position to give it to her so you can be done? In my sitch it's money. Xh is having trouble keeping up with expenses so his solution is to try and force a sale of my house, hopefully getting a chunk of equity, so he can live comfortably in the house he bought with OW. This is insanity. Hang in there. Truly, it won't last forever. At some point this will just seem like a blip on your long journey.