I just need to post so I don't get further sucked in by xh's craziness. The Jekyll and Hyde cycle makes my head hurt. Today's email started out "I don't blame you for harboring resentment and animosity toward me..." Which I don't by the way. Then he goes into a full explanation of his expenses and how little he has to live. This scenario is very different from the rant several months ago. Suddenly he isn't sharing the mortgage with OW. Now she only helps out. I don't buy it. When I made reference to their shared bank account and dual income he quickly explained that they have a joint account for paying a few household expenses. Right. So the boys and I are now a household expense since our support check was drawn from that account. He also accused me of costing him $65k since he couldn't buy the original house he wanted and had to buy a more expensive one. Wait. I thought the entire down payment came from OW. And, wasn't this the house that he tried to hide from me? Wow! Yet he couldn't buy it because of me. I guess he doesn't consider attempted mortgage fraud as a reason the deal fell through. I'm sorry about the sarcasm. I don't typically speak this way, but, dang, I'm tired of the lies and blame.
