HI Dingo... WOW! I sure can relate to you! Totally afraid that if I walk, he wont follow, but then use it against me that I didn't TRY hard enough!... crazy spot huh? Also, the part about being pulled in to answer about dating...whats the point? just for the purpose of "being available to them"? No wonder this stuff is so hard! AND, if any of the above is done with intent..WELL, thats just plain cruel. I guess this is where WE must make the decision to do what SAVES ourself, and to be content with that. If its meant to be, it will be... I guess!

labug,.... ok... how do I ask her? I was hoping she might just catch up on this thread and offer to review my sitch... Thanks!!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)