Let's back up the car a bit. Before you drive into the SSM stuff and launch it on your W, look at what happened during the exchange below:
Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung
M- No, but I have something to do with you... for a while, anyways.
W- (with a pause and a surprised but lighthearted tone) Ohhhhhhhh... For a while, huh? M- (without skipping a beat) Just keeping it real, just keeping it real.
As she walked by me I playfully grabbed her wrist and she tried to pull away, all the while smiling at me and looking into my eyes.
This is a very positive forward movement. As MWD, go for the cheese (not the big one yet) to get more of it. She did not flinch or shirk away from you when you grabbed her waist. That's a biggie right there.
Why don't you try and build up on this positive interaction with more touches? You just can't shift gears from 1 to 4 all in one fell swoop, right? Heck, you've just moved from 1 to 2 with that playful grab. You've stuck with gear 1 for a long time and now need to REALIZE and recognize that you've shifted to gear 2.
