Hi again, I'm the same as artsy with the rings - mine went long ago. In response to the WAS starting to look inward, I really think it just depends on the stage that they are in. My H was in the complete confusion/depression stage at this point so my actions really effected him. Going back prior to that when he felt trapped and anger nothing I said or did he cared about or even noticed. I think these types of personal situations relies then with you, your personal sitch and your coach to sort through.
The limbo land I'm affraid stays for a while just changes shape. I think we can all agree with this part. our patience being tested :-)
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Never allow kindness be misinterpreted for weakness. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.
