I haven't worn my rings since BD. Our vows were broken, as far as I'm concerned the rings mean nothing at this point. He stopped wearing his a year ago, and lied about it (said his hands swelled at work). I noticed at one point he had it on a clip on his keychain- he's trying to keep our S secret from most people, so I'm guessing he puts it on when it suits him. I don't ask.
Didn't mean to hijack- just agreeing with you on the rings: why be the only one hanging on to the symbolism?
hi artsy. I agree. Like bug said. My M is dead. I am moving forward with my life with that in mind
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
