I haven't worn my rings since BD. Our vows were broken, as far as I'm concerned the rings mean nothing at this point. He stopped wearing his a year ago, and lied about it (said his hands swelled at work). I noticed at one point he had it on a clip on his keychain- he's trying to keep our S secret from most people, so I'm guessing he puts it on when it suits him. I don't ask.
Didn't mean to hijack- just agreeing with you on the rings: why be the only one hanging on to the symbolism?
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
