My W has a habit of doing that also, Saying she wants this to happen then not doing it. My MC says it is because I was always the doer in the M. I took her opinions into account and let her handle things but when she didn't I did them.

This made her feel like I was controlling.

I feel, just from things she has said(you have the money why don't you file or it is really difficult to do by myself), that she is waiting to see if I will breakdown and file. I won't but she does not know that.

She has to be the one to do it. I hope and I am not sure but I think she sees all that is involved and all that we have built up over the years and even though she wants out it is hard to just up and leave all this so she wants me to make that decision for her IMHO.

Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014