Just then she came around the corner. I know she heard me. Did I just blow any progress I may have made?
No not at all, Sandi's rule is not to tell THEM you love them. The reason is because you can't do it without an expectation on your part and hers that she'll say it back, so when she doesn't it hangs in the air like an ugly stench. If she hears you saying it to yourself once or twice, no biggie. She knows you love her, that's not the issue. The issue is that she doesn't want to reciprocate that love right now.
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The office manager knows she is unemployed but that is it. The office manager said she thought W is highly qualified to do this work which she is.
Oh wow. I've read a lot of threads here, but that is a first for me! How big is the office, would you see W constantly or hardly ever? If you will see her constantly, what would that do to your ability to carry out your work responsibilities?
