Jusr an aside... I have sent a few mistake texts myself. Totally innocent and I always figure it out. My H probably never knew because he deleted every text after he sends it. It never pays to be sneaky...
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Enough about that. I was just taking to some coworkers about how often it happens.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15