You got comfortable and let the boundaries drop. Ok time to put them back up. Remind him how you feel about being friends with him while he is involved with OW.
I think I got one of those mistake texts once and it haunted me for weeks. I'm sorry.
Julie - I am so sorry to hear that you also received an mistaken text. It never even crossed my mind because I cant imagine doing the same thing to my H. Talk about naive on my part.
