You are on his roller coaster 3b....You also know that you have to get off for your sanity.
Thanks LFW. You have no idea how much I needed your response today! I know that you are right. I need and WANT to get off his roller coaster. While he does not know what he wants, I know that I want better than what he currently has to offer. Just trying to figure out the best way to approach this...whether to just stop responding and/or address it directly with H. Since my H already knows the boundary, I agree with your suggestion to just ignore texts of a personal nature and live my life. No need to repeat the boundary to H since he does not listen anyway. Thanks again.