...and sorry to read it is so hard on s17 (sorry for misreading he was the one internalizing) - but you know, you did not choose this for him - you are being a great mom. You can only own your own stuff.

M 20 yrs
me 47
H 51
s11
d8

BD 10/8/13
H Moved out 11/30/13
OW slept over with children Dec '13
OW moved in w/H Jan '14