Wow Willbewell: I just love you. You too, LoisB. My husband also internalized things. I also think I needed to pay better attention to husband's needs. You are doing a great job. I also think I was a pretty neat person before bomb drop. I was just too reactive and ready to place blame on husband when I was overwhelmed as mother, worker,and wife - and put that last one last in priority. But you know what - we will be even better, you and I. We are still learning. That is why we are still here. Nothing to beat yourself up about.
M 20 yrs me 47 H 51 s11 d8
BD 10/8/13 H Moved out 11/30/13 OW slept over with children Dec '13 OW moved in w/H Jan '14
