I was out and about catching up on a few poster and saw your thread. I think Gmom23 is spot on. I only wanted to add one thing...
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but, I want him to know that what I am doing NOW and for the past year is the "work" I will feel good about.
Action speak louder than words. The "work" you are doing will show by your actions. No need to remind him cause your actions should be enough.
That said, I understand you may feel like he will not "see it". Maybe he will...maybe he will not. If the work is done for YOU then it really should not matter if he does or does not see it.
Peace Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
