When he says he recalls an old comment that i had made where I stated that I will feel justified and good about myself as I know that I did my very best in this relationship. He sees that as a statement from the "past" not current. He says he recognizes that I did do things near the end to save us... but, I want him to know that what I am doing NOW and for the past year is the "work" I will feel good about. But, I guess thats a comment that can be saved for a later time, if he should ask about it again.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)