Dingo, I feel you I truly do and my heart goes out to you. And yes you did say for better or worse and that's regardless of her committment right now. Find the Dingo you want to be and be him. Truth is we can follow all this great advice and they still leave, I like this board but it's a 'supplement' for me just like i'm a personal trainer and I eat pretty healthy but I also take supplements to help make minor tweaks to my physique. To me my foundation is Christ and if you put your trust in man and our falliable wisdom you will be let down eventually, i.e. spouses that WAW. Did you have a role in the degredation of the M? Ofcourse. Does she want it to work right now? Who knows, but I do believe that it's never too late. Don't wallow in your mistakes. You love your W that's fine you should, D isn't the answer you're talking to someone who has been D and I took those problems from the previous M and brought them to this one. So you have to dig deep, i know it sounds cliche but it's true all you can control is you...
This isn't for the faint of heart! Hang in there the answers you are looking for aren't far and you don't have to justify yourself to anyone. Make the decisions best for you and your sitch... Learn from the mistakes and continue to grow... A really good read you might get something from is "Love must be tough" By Dobson And as always pray...
