Job, we're all doing well. Thank you for asking. I've been busy working on my home, making it a reflection of who lives here, what we like and value. We're also busy planning for college and have a list of those we'd like to visit, in state and out. S17 will apply in the fall.
Life feels good and normal until I have to deal with xh or the legal proceeding. We have a settlement conference next week. It's the last one before trial. I wish xh would come to his senses, but he's moving forward, still believing that he's owed something. He doesn't see himself, his actions or the consequences.
Xh is still hiding information. This month he used the checking account he shares with OW. He blacked out her name and their address. So silly. I have title documents that show this information. They are no longer having an affair. We're divorced. Why prolong the fantasy? Also, he paid part of support by cash. I wonder why? Does OW not know what he's court ordered to pay? Does he not want the full amount to be traceable? Or does he have additional income paid in cash that he's not reporting? (I know the answer - he's a gambler). Dumb move considering we're going to court and I will ask my attorney to bring it up.
I try not to spend time and energy on the above, but it does take me off track momentarily.
