Dingo, use the time you asked for wisely, to really dig deep and figure out who you are, what you want in life, your values.
People without those things (and here it comes ) and without strong boundaries lose themselves in Rs. They aren't even really "there" to their partners. They become more of a convenience in some areas and a hindrance in others. Does that make sense?
While you're taking your time, do read Codependent No More.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
) and without strong boundaries lose themselves in Rs. They aren't even really "there" to their partners. They become more of a convenience in some areas and a hindrance in others. Does that make sense?