IMO, now is NOT the time to set a timeline. I think your approach is perfect - take it day by day.
Keep the focus on YOU and the kids.
Eric
Agreed.
I like to act as if the M will improve soon, as in a few months or so. This gives me the hope I need to carry on. If things don't turn around by then, I'll deal with it at that time.
Holding on to the hope that we will get through this, and have a better M is key for me. I can't do that if I think it'll take YEARS.
Besides, thinking positive makes it more likely to HAPPEN.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
