I've let go, according to my definition, a long time ago. She's more than free to leave or file at any time. I've not talked about our relationship or what I want. I just do my thing and leave her to do hers.
Yet she's not only still here, not complaining about or blaming me, but seems to have BOTH feet in the door. I must be a pretty good option after all.
Since she's not going anywhere, I rationalize that I need to start making MY requirements known for continuation of this relationship.
Before I do GIVE UP, which is much different than letting go.
Last nights comment wasn't great, but was enough to get the ball rolling. And show that I have more power than I thought. I believe we all do.
I expect, yep, EXPECT, that we will soon have some better discussions on the subject of US.
Move forward without fear. Be the man. Ask for what I want.
^^^sounds attractive to me.
I'm reviewing SSM so I don't muff this up.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
