Two questions

1.) I was preparing a Superbowl dinner for myself, having a great time. A song came on the radio I was singing thinking I was alone. I didn't hear W come home. After the song was over I said to myself(because I thought I was alone)out loud "and that is why I love you so much (insert W name)". Just then she came around the corner. I know she heard me. Did I just blow any progress I may have made?


2.) W is unemployed, her benefits have run out. A temporary position to maybe permanent position has opened at my company it pays what she was making at her previous job and is the same distance from home and work hours. No one at work knows our situation. The office manager knows she is unemployed but that is it. The office manager said she thought W is highly qualified to do this work which she is. She asked if W may be interested. I said I would ask.

My question is do I even approach my W with this or let it go?


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014