You need to trust in God and allow him to do his work. There's nothing you can do for him but to pray that he comes through his crisis a better, more settled man. There is absolutely nothing you can do to speed up the process and you do not want to try to "snap" him out of it because he'll only go back into crisis at a later time and it will be far worse than this time around.
You will need to find a way to let things be and get on w/your life. Your daughter needs you now more than ever. Pick up that old to do list that you've put on the back burner and begin working on some of those items. Maybe you have some hobbies or projects that you've put aside and now would be a great time to pick them up. Are there hobbies, projects or even new classes that you would like to do? What about volunteer work?
You've been on this rodeo circuit before, so you know what you need to do...focus on you and your daughter, keep busy and let nature take its course w/him. The less you contact him, the better for he needs keep his focus on his needs/wants right now in order to move along the path.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
