P - I can't speak for GM but I am 6 months post BD and my H is still in the middle and cannot make a decision either way. The ONLY thing he says in response to any R question is "I don't know.". It makes me want to hit myself in the head with a hammer every time he says it. I am trying to not think of it as being in limbo. I am now at a point that I can say that my M is dead. I am working on myself and focusing on the kids. Maybe one day my H will start to look at himself and will be able to start a new relationship. If not, I am using this time to work on myself.
hi 3! I am glad you said that. Good thing to think about. I am feeling a littlendown today. Not sure why. We have yet another snownstorm today. Up to 8 inches of snow expected. Schools closed....W willn surely be staying in my area due to weather..starting to experiment with saying XW about her. Just to see his it feels. Not saying it out loud...just to me. Have a safe day if you are also in the path of this storm.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
