P - I can't speak for GM but I am 6 months post BD and my H is still in the middle and cannot make a decision either way. The ONLY thing he says in response to any R question is "I don't know.". It makes me want to hit myself in the head with a hammer every time he says it. I am trying to not think of it as being in limbo. I am now at a point that I can say that my M is dead. I am working on myself and focusing on the kids. Maybe one day my H will start to look at himself and will be able to start a new relationship. If not, I am using this time to work on myself.
