I want you to know that I didn't ask that question in a mocking way but sometimes it's good to answer these tough ones. Too often we don't slow down to really think about our actions or our choices.
And you do have choices.
Your H may do those things you hope for but he'll do them in his time. You have no control of that.
In the meantime, you build a life of your own with S. Doesn't mean you're giving up hope you're just taking care of you and giving H room to live his life.
You can do this, Julie.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
