I myself have been having some feelings of resentments towards the WAW. However, that is of my own making. It is like they have all the power (they don't really, just seems that way sometimes).
For instance, we are supposed to be amicable, so I ask her if she wants to do something sometimes (really minor, like watch a movie, or halftime show for the superbowl). Anyway, the answer is always no. Am i even supposed to be asking?
In addition, like your wife, they need to be called out on inappropriate activity (my opinion). I was literally thinking earlier......'if i cause waves, what is she going to do? Get a divorce?????' She already wants that LOL.
I guess i will stop asking, maybe i shouldn't be anyway, didn't think i had an agenda. Just trying to make things bearable as we continue to live together.
me 41 w43 married 20 years BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY.... 4 kids, 21,18,8,6