I'm just taking this one day as that just one day. Because shortly after we got home from gymnastics meet W called saying OM's daughter wanted to give my D a geninue pig & wanted to know what I thought. Said sure when was she getting it? W said next weekend, so OM's kids are now exchanging gifts with my kids, ha ha. This is why I'm realistic on this day even though it was good for both of us just that 1 day.

I know this process is going to be a long process & am not even sure it will turn out in my favor, but there is some things that are in my favor.

One of the other members who is following my posts asked me how long I was willing to wait 6 months...1 year...3 years. As of right now I am not going any place; but my gut feeling says that after we file our taxes as M the divorce papers will show up shortly after. As you can see my mind is all over the place just like the W.