Sandi, did I paraphrase this correctly or am I misunderstanding. and if I'm correct, damn that's not a nice thing for people to do....
Yes! And you used such fewer words to say it!
Sandi, then I second what you just by paraphrasing again for Dingo. if you we watching anybody else go thru this, would you tell them to tell the person to "...go pound sand" until they could get their act together and then maybe you would think about being around for them (if you were still available...)
not as a tactic, but seriously do it. Take you life back. you don't have to actually those words, but think like that...."the heck with you!....you don't treat me nice and the world is full o people who will....get your sh!t together..." something like that
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14