You are so right, 3bm. That couple was easily 40 years my senior - who knows what can happen in my life in 40 years? (Hmm, that's the first time I have looked at it like that!) I am trying to place more of my focus on "maybe I can still have that" rather than, "I will never have that with H."
When you guys look at other people's sitches, do you think, "oh, that poor woman, She will never find anyone again"? LOL! Of course not. Why are we so negative about ourselves?
On a completely unrelated note, why does Miley Cryus feel compelled to be naked in all her music videos?
Sorry for the hijack, Mimi.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14